Is she ‘faking’ it? Maybe. But don’t freak out, fellas

Dear Lori and Jeff,

My girlfriend and I have been together for about two years and most things seem to be going well except that I can’t really tell if she still enjoys having sex with me. I’ve tried to ask her if there are any problems or things she would like me to do differently and she sort of shrugs off my questions by saying that everything’s good. I’m worried she’s resigned herself to the fact that it’s just good enough. My biggest concern is that she may be faking her enjoyment of sex with me. Is this something women do?

Signed, Questioning What’s Real

Sex and IntimacyLori KretMay 15, 2019Aspen Relationship Coachingrelationship coaching, relationship advice, is partner faking orgasm, worried girlfriend isn't sexually satisfied, why do some women fake orgasmComment

Is she sexually satisfied?

Dear Lori and Jeff,

My girlfriend and I have been together for four years and the frequent and passionate sex we used to have at the beginning of our relationship has become more routine and happens much less often. I still really enjoy being intimate with her but I often wonder if I’m able to satisfy her in the way she satisfies me. Bottom line is I wonder if she still really enjoys it. Any suggestions?

Signed, Baffled in Bed